We often form opinions about people without knowing their background or reality. This not only hurts others but also creates a toxic environment. I recently experienced this when I moved to a new school. I met a girl named Alisha who was labeled as “rude and unkind”. However, I discovered that she was actually a caring and nice person. This experience taught me a valuable lesson: we should not form opinions based on hearsay.

Social media has become a significant contributor to this problem. We often compare our lives to the curated reels of others, forgetting that what we see online is not always a reality. We should be cautious of the influence of social media and not let it dictate our perceptions of others. For instance, when we watch Instagram reels or YouTube videos, we often see people showcasing their seemingly perfect lives. We might see a beautiful girl promoting a makeup product, and we’re instantly convinced that the product is amazing. But do we know the reality behind that promotional video? Probably not.
Similarly, when we see our favorite celebrities endorsing food products or snacks, we’re tempted to try them out. But do we know what they actually eat in their daily lives? Probably not. The point is, we should not believe everything we see on social media. Instead, we should focus on reality and not judge others based on their online presence. Moreover, we should be aware of the impact of our words and actions on others. Our judgments and criticisms can be hurtful and damaging, and they can affect people’s self-esteem and confidence. Judging others can also limit our own potential and opportunities. We might also miss out on valuable friendships and relationships.
So, what can we do to break this habit of judging others? First, we need to become more aware of our thoughts and actions. We need to recognize when we’re judging others and make a conscious effort to stop. Second, we need to practice empathy and understanding. We need to put ourselves in others shoes and try to see things from their perspective. Third, we need to focus on our own lives and problems rather than judging others. We need to take responsibility for our own actions and decisions rather than blaming or judging others. Finally, we need to create a more supportive and inclusive environment where everyone feels valued and respected. We need to promote positivity and kindness rather than negativity and criticism. 
Moral: One may smile and smile and be a villain.